{"title":"Resources","description":"\u003cp\u003eHeal \u003cem\u003ewith\u003c\/em\u003e your grief utilizing the powerful \u003cstrong\u003e\u003cem\u003eGrief Rebel\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e healing framework and Coaching Method.  Transform your grief struggles of overwhelm, intense emotions, deep pain and profound sadness with Grief Rebel Books, Workbooks \u0026amp; Courses.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c!----\u003e","products":[{"product_id":"creating-boundaries-that-work-workbook","title":"1:1 Grief Coaching Session + BONUS Badass Boundaries Guide | Jim Spelman","description":"\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA powerful grief boundaries workbook paired with personalized support to help you protect your healing in real life\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eCreating boundaries in grief is not just about learning a few phrases.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eIt is not just about saying no louder.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eIt is not about becoming cold, cutting everyone off, or suddenly transforming into the perfectly healed version of yourself who speaks every limit with calm confidence while sipping herbal tea in a sunbeam.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eNope.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWhen grief, trauma, caregiving, loss, family pressure, exhaustion, guilt, anger, loneliness, and overwhelm are all tangled together, boundaries can feel deeply complicated.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou may know you need space — but not know how to ask for it.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou may know you are exhausted — but still keep saying yes.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou may know something is not working — but feel terrified of hurting someone, disappointing someone, being misunderstood, or losing connection.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou may read the right words on a page and still wonder, “But how the hell do I actually do this in my life?”\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThat is why this offering combines two powerful tools:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe Badass Boundaries Guide\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eand\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eone 75-minute 1:1 coaching session with Jim Spelman.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe workbook gives you the Grief Rebel framework.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe session helps you apply it to your real life, real people, real grief, real fear, real energy, and real capacity.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWhy pairing the guide with a 1:1 session matters\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBadass Boundaries Guide\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cspan\u003e helps you understand why boundaries get so hard after the blast. It gives you simple language, journal prompts, reflection exercises, fuel-level check-ins, the Sacred No, the Grief Fog Clause, Yes \/ No \/ Not Now sorting tools, and scripts you can steal, change, soften, strengthen, or make your own.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBut sometimes a workbook opens a door.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAnd what comes through that door needs a witness.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA 1:1 session gives you space to slow down, sort through what is actually happening, name the real challenge underneath the surface problem, and begin creating boundaries that are not theoretical — but usable.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis is where the work can become personal, practical, and deeply healing.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eTogether, we can look at the places where your energy is leaking, where you are over-explaining, where your yes is costing too much, where grief fog is affecting your choices, where guilt is running the show, where old roles no longer fit, and where your healing is asking for more oxygen.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe guide helps you begin.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe session helps you make it real.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan\u003eIn this 75-minute session, you may work on:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul data-spread=\"false\"\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eOne specific boundary you need to create or strengthen\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA relationship where you keep disappearing, over-giving, or saying yes when you mean no\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFamily pressure, unwanted advice, grief timelines, holidays, caregiving demands, work expectations, or emotional overwhelm\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWhat your body, grief, energy, and nervous system are trying to tell you\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHow to say less and mean more\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHow to use kind but clear language\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHow to stop building a courtroom defense around your needs\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHow to choose whether something is a yes, no, or not now\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHow to protect connection without abandoning yourself\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHow to create a boundary that works for the person you are right now — not the person you used to be before the blast\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis is not about getting every word perfect.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis is about staying connected to yourself while you speak.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWhy 75 minutes?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eJim’s 1:1 coaching sessions are 75-minutes because grief work often opens slowly.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eMany people do not arrive at the deeper truth, the real challenge, or the breakthrough point in the first few minutes. 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This is where I need help.”\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAnd then we work there.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eTogether.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBecause boundaries are not just ideas.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThey are lived.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePracticed.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAdjusted.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFumbled.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eStrengthened.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eReturned to.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAnd when you are grieving, you do not have to do that work alone.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis pairing was created to help you move from reading about boundaries to actually beginning to create boundaries that protect your healing, refuel your depleted tanks, calm your overwhelm, and help you stop abandoning yourself in the name of keeping everyone else comfortable.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou deserve boundaries that work for you.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou deserve support while you practice them.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou deserve a life where your grief, your healing, your body, your energy, and your becoming all have room to breathe.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eSpecial introductory price: $147\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eRegular value: $232\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"JimSpelmanCoach","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43202381119545,"sku":"","price":147.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0607\/8483\/6665\/files\/WebPlaceholderFINAL.png?v=1780966544"},{"product_id":"creating-hopeful-bad-a-boundaries-presentation","title":"Badass Boundaries Workbook for Grief, Trauma \u0026 Loss | Grief Rebel","description":"\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\u003cmeta charset=\"utf-8\"\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eReading about boundaries helps. 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Your ability to answer texts, show up, explain yourself, keep everyone comfortable, or “do life like before” may be completely different.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAnd that does not mean you are failing.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBadass Boundaries for Rebuilding Your Life After the Blast\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cspan\u003e is a 58-page printable grief boundaries guide and workbook created for people who are tired, foggy, furious, tender, overwhelmed, caregiving, rebuilding, or barely holding their life together with duct tape and breath.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis is not a guide about becoming cold, harsh, rigid, or emotionally bulletproof.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis is a guide about learning how to protect your healing without abandoning your heart.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBecause boundaries are not walls.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBoundaries are self-care in motion.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eInside this guide, you will explore why boundaries can feel so hard in grief, how the blast shakes your whole boundary system, and how to begin rebuilding your yes, your no, your not now, your time, your energy, your body, your grief, and your healing.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYou will learn the difference between protection boundaries and connection boundaries, how to check your fuel levels before hard conversations, how to use the Grief Fog Clause, how to practice the Sacred No, and how to stop building a courtroom defense around your needs.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis workbook also includes practical grief boundary scripts you can borrow, change, mess up, and make your own — because you do not have to invent the perfect words while your nervous system is on fire.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis guide will help you:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul data-spread=\"false\"\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eUnderstand why boundaries feel harder after grief, trauma, or loss\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eStop seeing messy boundary attempts as failure\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eProtect your energy, body, heart, nervous system, time, grief, and healing\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePractice saying no without overexplaining every damn thing\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eRecognize when something is a yes, no, or not now\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eUse scripts for unwanted advice, family pressure, grief timelines, holidays, emotional overwhelm, repeated pushing, and needing space\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBuild boundaries that help you stay connected without disappearing inside the relationship\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWhat’s included:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul data-spread=\"false\"\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003e58-page digital PDF guide\/workbook\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eGrief Rebel boundary teachings\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eJournal prompts and reflection pages\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFuel-level check-in tools\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYes \/ No \/ Not Now sorting exercise\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eSacred No practice\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBoundary scripts you can steal, soften, strengthen, or make your own\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan\u003eGR Yells, permission slips, and no-BS reminders for rebuilding after the blast\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis is not about getting boundaries perfect.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis is about staying with yourself. Questioning. Noticing. Practicing. Telling the truth in little pieces. 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You need something you can read in the middle of the night, in the car before walking into a family gathering, on the bathroom floor, or during the five minutes when you are somehow both completely numb and completely falling apart.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis book meets grieving people exactly where they are:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eExhausted.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eConfused.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFurious.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eNumb.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eOverwhelmed.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWeirdly okay for five minutes.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThen wrecked again.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWith humor, honesty, compassion, permission, and practical tools, 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new in a world that has been completely rearranged.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAt its core, \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cem\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWhen the Sh*t Hits Your Fan\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cspan\u003e is about permission.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"isSelectedEnd\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePermission to question everything.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePermission to feel what you feel.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePermission to rest without apology.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePermission to set boundaries.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePermission to vomit the truth.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePermission to laugh at the absurdity.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePermission to stop performing strength.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePermission to lean into living again 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